We believe there's a balance between a productive search for the perfect mate, lifestyle partner or new friend .. and keeping safe at all times. You might ask, "Is it possible for me to be spontaneous without endangering life and limb?"

Our answer is a resounding "YES" .. so long as you let your good instincts guide your actions.

In an effort to maximize your well being, without compromising your enjoyment, we offer the following tips.

FAQ stands for "Frequently Asked Questions" .. and because they are usually common questions we have answered them in this section. If you cannot find the answers you are looking for here, please email us so we can help you out!

We will continue to add FAQs as members keep asking questions. ALT loving is new, and we truly need and want your input to improve your web site.